Trouble is, none of them would be thrilled to meet us. We are the only species on this planet who kill for fun or sport, who encamp, enslave and consume other species when not necessary to survive and who too often act aggressively out of fear of the unknown.
Anyone advanced enough to develop interstellar space travel would be smart enough to keep their distance and observe from afar.
Phoebe, count your blessings that it has to come from her face.